Radio and television presenter Deloris Frimpong Manso, popularly known as Delay, has advised men to prove they actually deserve strong, intelligent, independent women.
She said women of that calibre do not make it easy to get since they build mechanisms to block out everything that will break them and that in order to get your way into her life, the man will have to make it past all the barriers and prove he truly deserves her.
“Men, you say you want a strong, intelligent, truly independent woman who wants you rather than needs you; who inspires you, who pushes you towards being yourself; who can stick by you through the hardest times, and who can be your rock through life’s obstacles,” she said.
“But you need to know that a truly strong, independent woman does not walk through life with her heart wide open. She has had to put up walls to block toxicity to obtain her strength. She is skeptical and always on alert from a lifetime of defense against predators. She is going to be a bit jaded, a little cynical, and a little scary because those qualities come with the struggle of obtaining that strength that gravitates you. She is going to doubt and question your good intentions because it has become her adaptability instincts that have allowed her to thrive,” she added.
“She is not a ball of sunshine. She has flaws. She has a past. She has her demons. She knows better than to just let down her barriers for you simply because you voice a desire to enter. You have to prove your right to entrance. She will assume the worst of you because the worst has happened. If you want her to see otherwise, prove her wrong!!” she concluded.
She shared this on her Instagram page accompanied by her picture.
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